Friday, November 22, 2013

My Connections to Play

“The child amidst his baubles is learning the action of light, motion, gravity, muscular force….” ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

I like this quote because it eloquently explains how play IS learning. As a child, I played outside often. I saw many different types of trees, leaves, and animals. I also learned skills, like, climbing and picking fruit when it’s ready. When children play, they are unconsciously testing, observing, theorizing, experimenting, and finding solutions.

“Play is the highest form of research.” ~ Albert Einstein 

Other than my love for Einstein, I love this quote because it simply states how easily children learn. I think sometimes adults forget about children’s natural ability to learn. We learn best when we are not “trying” to learn to all.  We are born with an innate drive to investigate and figure things out. Play is the highest form of research because you get all the benefits from doing the research without any of the “work”.
“In our play we reveal what kind of people we are.” ~Ovid (Roman poet)
            This quote has two meanings to me. Play allows children to express their inner selves in the most natural of ways; it is freedom of expression. As a teacher and a parent, it is a wonderful way to understand a child and their behavior. This quote also explains to me how the experiences and play children have during the early years sets the foundation for who we are as adults. During play, children learn what they like and don’t like. They gain a sense of who they are over a period of time.


One essential play item of mine was my big wheel. I remember riding on it for hours up and down the street; I loved it! Something as simple as riding this toy and feeling the wind in my hair was a release for me. Sometimes when I’m having fun driving in my car I get that same feeling I did as a child on my big wheel. Now, if only I could use the same type of petal power with the same speed of my car, my wallet and I would be very happy!

I also adored my Krystal Princess dolls. I liked them so much because they were pretty, had colored hair, were sparkly, and had their own separate carriage to stroll them around. They were also a brand that had pieces you could add to the collection. I got joy from buying new princesses and adding them to my Krystal City. I loved my collection!
"Simon Says" is a game I loved playing. I also played the group version in preschool and with my cousins. This light game would light one light on the first turn that the player has to copy. On the second turn, two light would light up in sequence, again, that you had to copy. This would continue with three, four and so on.  There was something exciting and thrilling about trying to see how many times you could copy Simon as it got harder and harder. Its a great memory skills game and the best part you are having fun! 
My parents played a lot with me growing up. I remember playing video games with my parents. I still do to this day. It was and still is a good reason to get together and have down time. My mom and I would play with my dolls and cook together. I loved helping her in the kitchen and always saw this time as play time. Watching how my mom turned a bag of groceries into a delicious meal really interested me. There is a lot to cooking and I loved it. I still get that same joy when I cook as an adult. I had a lot of fun working puzzles with my dad. One activity we did that we both really enjoyed was listening and singing to music. As I played as a child, I was learning what I was interested in and what I enjoyed. It is funny; nearly all of the things that I recall having a genuine interest and good time doing as a child, I still enjoy doing today. As a child, it is awesome when you discover something that makes you happy while playing. As an adult, it is a good feeling when you are successful at something you like because of the fun practice you were able to have as a child. 
I feel that play these days involves a little bit less outdoor activities. I think this is because technology has had great improvements in the past twenty years. It has been like a drug for children and teenagers. With these improvements, you can get information faster and easier. Who wouldn't want that? Well, like everything, technology use should be used in moderation. The problem comes when you don't even out physical play with video or internet play.  Video games and internet usage can be educational and offers many wonderful benefits when done in the right way.  Also I think kids are playing less and less board games. This too is because they can be played on the computer or phone. This takes away that valuable face-to-face time that you get with board games. The more we can socialize in person and communicate in our physical form the more we learn how to communicate and make friends; things I feel that have a limited means to achieve.  



Saturday, November 9, 2013

Relationship Reflection


            This week is about the importance of supportive relationships and partnerships. I have learned a lot about the worth of creating these strong partnerships with families and parents of the children I teach. Everyone has something to gain when the parents, teachers and caregivers involved in a child’s life come together for the whole child. It involves working towards the same goals and seeing eye-to-eye. In this blog post, I will share some of the most important relationships currently in my life.







            The relationship I will start with is the one with my husband, Chris. We just celebrated our one year anniversary on October 11th. He is the only person I have ever imagined spending my whole life with. We challenge each other all the time and grow as a couple with each day and with each spat. It hasn’t been a piece of cake developing a good working partnership but we have a good one and we are still learning. We have known each other for five years. He has taught me how to be more giving, thoughtful and a better person in general.  We get each other and more importantly, we respect each other. We try our best to listen to each other and understand the gray area of give and take. One of the hardest challenges for us throughout our five years of knowing each other is communicating effectively. We have learned a lot and made many strides towards this skill but we will always be improving. A marriage takes patience, understanding, and openness. I love my partnership with him and I look forward to learning much more with him!

            Secondly, the relationship I have with my Mom, Susan, is a very special one. She is my best friend and understands me to a “T”. I can go to her about anything and I know she will help me through it and teach me something about life in the process. She has given me unconditional love and support which I am truly grateful for. I’m so blessed to have such a wonderful relationship with the only woman whom I call Mom. Because of her, I am a confident, secure and responsible woman. She has been a great example for me by practicing what she preaches and giving me wonderful advice; habits and traits that I will carry on to my children. I can’t thank her enough for all she has done and continues to do. We have a strong bond and partnership that works well.

            My dad is also my best friend and I am his only child. I know I can count on him to be there when I need him or when I need an ear to talk to. We have a strong, stable relationship because of his commitment to my happiness and growth. When I think back to my childhood with him, the first thing I think of is how often we played games together. That was one our favorite activities to do together whether it was playing outside or playing chess and doing puzzles. He taught me how to have fun, laugh and stay young for as long as I can. That is something that has always stuck with me and stays in the back of my mind as I "grow". At the same time, he also never let me get out of line. He made sure I knew how to follow rules and stay in check. He set appropriate boundaries for me and showed me that actions have consequences. He has been a great example of how a great man is suppose to be and continues to do so. Not to mention he his hilarious and makes me laugh all the time. I am forever thankful for my dad's continued guidance, love, sense of humor and support.
            I am also very grateful for the relationship with my stepmother, Laura pictured above. She has treated and loved me like a daughter from the beginning. She and my Dad married 14 years ago. I was her maid of honor. There have been times where I did not know what I was going to do without her. She knows that when she needs me, I will be there for her and vice versa. We understand each other and truly care about each others concerns and well-being. We relate to each other in our love for animals. We have a string relationship built on trust and honesty. I’m very grateful for her.

            Last but not least is my pitbull/boxer mix, Baby. I rescued her 6 years ago when she was 4 months old. She had a couple of problems from a spider bite she got as a puppy. I took care of her bite and made her fat, healthy, and happy. She is very loyal and smart! She stays close to me and loves to cuddle. She has a sharp mind and loves to learn tricks. I feel safe with her around. I’m very grateful for her friendship and protection. She is my sweet Baby.

           
             I definitely take what I learn in my personal life into my work life and vice versa. When I learn a new way to be a better partner and contributor, I carry that new knowledge with me everywhere. This week, I have learned more in depth about the importance and value of developing positive and supportive partnerships. I look forward to seeing this mew knowledge in action as I interact with children and their families. Although it can be hard at times, I will try harder at planning classroom activities where parents can be involved in the classroom. The topic of introspect, partnerships, and relationships is good knowledge for early childhood and in life.